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Was: a victim
City: house-Chennai
Was wearing Short skirt and top
Reaction: Helpless, Passively Endured

Incident was : One time

Perpetrator was a Family member or Relative and aged 40-50

Experience:

I was 12 or 13, I use to visit my uncle’s place very often as a kid. I really enjoyed the company of my cousins, we spent a lot of time together as kids. So, one night as usual my uncle was drunk and he was tell us a story, me and my girl cousin. I thought he was trying to put us to sleep. We lied down in a row, my uncle was facing my back. He had his drunk face over my face. as he was narrating something, I felt some thing slimy in my back. I didn’t know what it was, all I knew is that it didn’t feel good. I was feeling really uncomfortable. I didn’t know what to say or what to do. He kept push in that slimy thing of his into my butt. After what seemed like half an hour or so, I finally got up, saying I wanna go to the restroom and went and slept in my aunt’s room.
I am 18 now. it was very recent that I realized that i was a victim of child sexual abuse. the memory is still fresh in my mind. I don’t know how to over come it, or get rid of that memory.

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Gender woman

Was: a victim
City: Shop

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near house, Nellore, AP

Was wearing Short skirt and top

Reaction: Helpless, Passively Endured

Incident was : One time

Perpetrator was a Neighbour and aged 20-30

Experience:
It happened when I was in 4th std. I used to go for morning walk with my grand pa every day and stop by a shop while returning to buy newspaper. As we go there often, the shop keeper used to talk nicely and be very kind to me. He would be in his thirties.

That bad day, when I went alone to the shop it was 7AM in the morning I still remember it. That fellow suddenly took me into the shop and started touching my chest, putting his hands on my private parts and started undressing me. I was shocked and didn’t know what to do. Fortunately, someone came and somehow I could manage to escape. I didn’t know what happened to me but I was hurt physically and mentally.

Only after few years later, I realized how bad it was. Even now I thank that person who saved me.

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Gender woman

Was: a witness
City: Train/Kerala

Was wearing Short skirt and top

Reaction: Reacted (yelling,complaining,slapping, fighting back)

Incident was : One time

Perpetrator was a Stranger and aged 30-40

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Every lady will have a tale of sexual harassment she faced or witnessed when they look into their past. I too have many a stories to share. The most bizarre fact is that you are foretold that it is going to happen with you one day or the other. I was told by my mother and aunts that I am going to face it in different forms; once I start traveling alone; when I am alone at home; when a family member hugs in such a way that I feel uncomfortable etc. When I joined college the first advice from my aunt was to carry a ‘safety pin’ at the end of my Dupatta. And I did it till a point I realized it’s not safety pins that protected me from those maniacs, but my courage and my luck.

I’m sharing an incident to which I happened to be a witness. I was pursuing my masters in Delhi and was traveling from Kerala. Three days in a train with strangers, and I made sure

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that I got an upper berth. I was the lone woman in that coupe, and there was a man, consuming alcohol, and that made me a bit uncomfortable. He was so drunk that he tore the window curtains while getting up from his seat. I thought about shifting to the next coupe where I found three women, one of whom around my age. But I stayed back comforting myself.

I wasn’t comfortable sleeping in that space those two nights. I woke up on the second night hearing some noise in the coach. After a while, i figured out that a man tried to grope the girl in the next coupe where I thought of shifting. I had seen him talking very friendly to the family during the day. Hardly anyone ever expected him to act that way. She screamed and he was caught. Some men took took him outside the coach and had a conversation. I don’t know what went on there, but I saw him leaving the coach with his luggage. No one filed any complaint.

I looked for the drunkard in my coupe; he was sleeping without ever knowing what was going around. I felt sad for the victim and at the same time the selfish in me comforted that it didn’t happen to me. I felt relieved that i did not shift to that coupe.

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12Gender woman

Was: a victim
City: house/amritsar
Was wearing Short skirt and top
Reaction: Moved away silently

Incident was : One time

Perpetrator was a Friend or acquaintance and aged 20-30

Experience:
i was ard 13 maybe. We had this guy working at my dad’s shop,i used to call him “bhaiya”. One day i was watching tv,and he came in to give something.While passing on the parcel,he touched me under my thigs….and for some seconds i missed my breath. It was a bad touch,i could not beleive he just did that. The incidence in itself doesnt sound big,but let me tell you,i am 24 now,and i still remeber the feeling i had whn he touched me,it grosses me out,scared for for a long while. He and other jerks out there,who passed cheap comments,made me beleive that thats how every guy is,they are all bad,until i met the right ones.

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